
Among Lilies: What Do You Do When?
What do you do when the lilies don’t get you?
When you are among them and misunderstood at the same time
Can you rest even in uncertainty?
What provides you with comfort and ease?
Do you care to be understood?
What grinds your gears in the process?
Are you honest about the things you feel?
What helps you resolve matters?
and How do you find the peace it takes to move forward amidst all that seems to want you to remain stuck?
Here’s the thing, some would much rather you remain unsure about you, than for you to bring up uncertainties and specific feelings.
Some would rather you be confused than accompany you through the uprooting of the traditional conversations motions and jargons. Some would rather sweep the apparent issues of life under a rug and bring attention to what would be found on the side of the shallow end.
This can all be acceptable, but not at the expense of your clarity and resolving of matters important to you. Sometimes we don’t understand what is needed from others that we are in relationship with, and other times we understand that more may be asked of us or that more is required; and while in these relationships we may or may not be willing to provide the revised requirements or lists of things to the other parties amidst us. We want everyone to feel comfortable and if there are unidentified elephants in the room that can be avoided, we’d rather avoid them.
Here is your reminder that, at times you may need to address things that others may choose to overlook. You may have to bend what might be considered the status quo in order to get to the root issue of a thing. You may have to be the only one raising a question and asking for clarity. You may also have to ruffle a few feathers in the process of you coming to a settlement within.
God is not opposed to your questions. He doesn’t look down on your need for more details and pursuits of a sense of reassurance. God responds to your questions with His promises, He responds to your questions with answers. And although, being among the lilies proves to be more peaceful and settling than anywhere else; it is important to note that you can have questions and require more answers in what may appear to be the safest of places. You can be unsure and pursue more or what is greater even among the things you should be “grateful” for, grateful to be part of or, grateful to have witnessed. Here’s your reminder that gratitude and oblivion does not solve every problem or complaint. Here’s a reminder that shooing problems “under the rug” doesn’t automatically check them off as being resolved. Here’s a reminder that you can question and remain amidst what is safe and secure at the same time. Here’s is your reminder that transparency and honesty can prove to be “just what the doctor ordered” so to speak and, you don’t need everyone else to approve of it first and before you get to decide upon and, choose your own feelings.
You are entitled to be on a different page of the book entirely; without presuming that their blank stares and lack of a response to your unsettling spirit are acceptable enough a reason for you to just move on. Here is a reminder that it is perfectly acceptable to think differently regarding a matter than others do and, agree to disagree in the process of transformation and the time it takes to arrive at the appropriate realizations.
What do you do when, God is not annoyed with you but, others might be?
You address it other ways. You exist more than quietly in and amidst uncertainties anyway. You address responsibly and appropriately what others choose to ignore anyways.
You were made to pursue God in peace. We weren’t just made to know God, we were made to experience Him, but it isn’t supposed to be complicated…
Song of Songs 8:7
A huge torrent cannot extinguish love; rivers cannot sweep it away…
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