
ARE YOU EVERY WOMAN?
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“are you? or do you fell the pressure to be?
what are your thoughts on being every woman? let’s chat more about it on the blog.”
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I posted this to my instagram as a joke but also as a serious claim. I have thoughts about being every woman, but we aren’t here to talk about me in this blog. We are here to talk about you.
Are you feeling that? What, what should I be feeling, Arielle?
Oh well, just the pressures of societal norms and things of the sorts. Do you feel the need to show up in ways that God has not called you to in a consistent manner?
Here is a reminder that the pressure isn’t real. Well, it may be real in some sense and, in the feelings you feel. You may feel like there are things swaying your decision making; due to it’s natural and not so natural influence, but, the pressure to respond isn’t real. The pressure you feel to give a response for the ways in which you show up in the world is also not completely necessary either.
There is one rule book for the Christian woman and that rule book is the Bible. The term “rule” may seem a bit intense, so I will say that there is one road map and complete source of guidance for the Christian woman. Now, what this blog is not saying, is that the Christian woman is ONLY, solely, and strictly suppose to receive information and education from that one source; which is the Bible. What this blog is saying is that if, the Christian woman should ever be in doubt about and regarding her place of reference for all things, she can know and never doubt that the Bible, is indeed it. Now returning to the topic of pressures, can I remind you that every man is not your head, although every man can be a head.
The reason I bring this up is, that according to your background or history with men, you just might be more prone to follow a guy which, might I add, there is absolutely nothing wrong with. Naturally, a woman is to follow her husband, and naturally a woman should be drawn to one man, who is of the opposite sex. These are all natural and God given inclinations. Now, where the concept is extorted or misused is at the place of EVERY, man thinking that they should automatically be the head since they are indeed the head in specified dynamics assigned to them by God and, or otherwise. Then there are women who so deeply want to be lead by a man that they believe that they must submit to every man in order to find the one man; and the problem with that is, that every man who she submits to is not, THE ONE man and head who she should be submitting to. And so the story goes, it never works out because that process is like trying to connect two puzzle pieces that were never supposed to be connected to begin with. We all know that awkward and fully frustrating attempt at placing a puzzle piece that looked like it belonged somewhere and would fit very well there into that spot. Now after attempting to, for some time you come to realize that the specific two puzzle pieces most definitely, do not go together. They look like they should but, clearly do not fit because they were designed to connect to other pieces of the exact same puzzle. This is the same for the woman who offers her submission to every man while in the process of seeking courtship and while being pursued. It does not work because it was never meant to. It isn’t that, the man is not someone’s head. It is that, he is just not specifically, her head. It isn’t that she isn’t supposed to be submissive. It is that he is not the one that she should be submitted under or to.
Let’s revisit the topic of being every woman in our next blog, shall we?
Be encouraged!
Best,
ANOL ENCOURAGEMENT

