
MARRY UP
INTERRUPTING YOUR NORMALLY SCHEDULED
BLOG CONSUMPTION – TO ADDRESS MATTERS
OF THE BRIDE AND THE BRIDE TO BE
Here are a few words to declare:
“I am marrying up.”
“I am going to marry up.”
“the Bridegroom is indeed up.”
This topic is such a big deal. Now, as I look over my timeline and trending bridal news and postings…
We have to be honest and say that no one wants to marry down. No one in the history of forever looks at their own life and decides or determines to marry someone who might be socially and|or spiritually behind them.
Supposing my own personal story and testimony for example. In the natural I presume to factor in my hereditary as well as my spiritual lineage, ancestry and genealogy. I consider how hard I have fought personally to maintain a specific spiritual calling and natural existence in life. I consider all that I have worked towards and all that I continue to work towards. I consider all that I have been as a contribution to this earth since conception into now and, I for one can speak for myself and say that I will never marry nor date, or court down.
Now when I factor in the contributions of my lineage, and biological gene pool I’d have to double or even triple down on my pride and preference in this life. What I mean by this is simple, the surest way to become poor in life is to; discount and to discredit the sacrifices and the work that was put in by the generations that contributed to the earth before you. God is always up to doing something new, or “a new thing” as He calls it; but He is also after the things that will remain, and should remain.
Now let us, who are spiritual also consider all of the work it took to save you, meaning save your souls;
and the work that it has taken to renew your mind.
Think about what it has taken to sanctify you, as well as the work that it takes for you to be saved daily; and now you tell me, if you’d be willing to play around with that and marry downwards. Who on God’s green earth would choose a life that didn’t contribute to their own personal advancement, for and towards themselves. Who wants to be married to what would allow them to contribute in this lifetime in a lesser way; NOT the bride of Christ, that’s who.
Now let’s consider your education, your ability to solve problems and not to become them. Your ability to make a house feel like a home, and a family feel like a unit of safety, loyalty, comfort and love. Let’s consult your bodily maintenance schedule, all those hours you spend at the gym, your skin care routine, the time that you are taking to be snatched, as in well looking and ladylike. As well as what it takes for you to be put together, for the purposes and preferences of just you. Consider the things that you are doing to improve yourself, the new hobbies you have acquired, the books you are reading, the new skill set you are choosing, the mentality you are practicing, and the life you are preparing yourself for individually. Why would you waste that on someone with no stamps in their passport and someone who is not on the same level as you? Their intentions aren’t on the same level as your intentions towards yourself either.
Now let’s talk the Bridegroom, who is already up. The trifecta and the perfect One. Imagine a God that would literally die for you, and sacrifice His entire earthly existence all for you. He took on a not so good name for Himself, of course depending on who you were asking; and although completely innocent and never having ever committed a faulty deed, He sacrificed Himself for you.
He took on what would be deemed a questionable earthly reputation all for you. In order for you to take on a Godly reputation and, in order for you to live the best life possible in this lifetime. He accomplished this over 2,000 years ago and did it just for you. Not only has He done that has been mentioned but He has also asked you to become His bride so that you would not be alone here and on this side of life. He has covered everything for you, and has sorted out the most amazing life for you on this side of life; and promises to love you and remain faithful to you and only you. On top of this, He puts your love and life first, He cares for you first and He acknowledges you first.
He also asks for this same devotion from you. He wants for you to be as devoted to Him as He is to you. He asks that you believe in Him and that you hold fast to all that He has already accomplished for you on this side of life. Here is your reminder that the effort and accomplishments of your LORD and Savior alone, provides you with the assurance that you cannot afford to marry down in life. You do not have the bandwidth due to the family of faith that you belong to. The great cloud of witnesses deserves to witness more and better concerning your own personal marriage and testimony.
The God who created you and the Bridegroom who covers you deserve to see you thrive on this side of life; because you married the right one and have decided to be tremendously impactful on this side of life. The Bridegroom who rescues you has more written in His, the Lambs book of life concerning you and who you choose to marry on this side of life. Marry for purpose, marry because you can clearly see a future for yourself and your spouse on this side of life. Marry because you know that you would be wrecking the plan of hell towards your life and the life of those connected to you on this side of life. Marry because you have been chosen and have chosen the best possible outcome for your life and for the future you wish to share with someone else. Marry because your life and legacy depend on the vision you choose to behold from now and into eternity.
Here’s your reminder not to minimize your own altars as His bride.
xoxo,
His Bride, By Design
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